How very true. It is sad that people can be so cruel and
untrustworthy. I am glad that you have found a recipient that is not
tthat way.
--- In SeekingFreeSpermDon
wrote:
>
> It's been interesting and a bit discouraging to read these posts
lately.
> I think its incomprehensible to make arrangements to donate then
simply
> cancel or not even show up.
> It took me two years of contemplation to decide to become a donor.
I
> only found out about this through fellow Mensa members and I
followed
> their encouragement.
> There were many inquiries from the group and luckily I chatted with
and
> subsequently met a fantastic woman who so loves children and is
sincere
> in getting pregnant. I have promised, and therefore will continue,
to
> stick with her until she is confirmed pregnant. This may involve
many
> visits over time but I feel its worth it. Afterwards it is
absolutely
> up to her how much or little I stay involved in her, or a future
childs
> life.
> We live far apart but arrange to meet half way. It simply would not
> occur to me to charge for my sperm. In fact it never occured to me
to
> charge for my gas or the hotel room. The end goal of creating a new
> life far exceeds getting paid for any routine expenses.
> I propose that donor/recipient set up a webcam meeting. Then all
doubts
> and fabricatons are dealt with. To ensure its not some kind of feed
I
> submit that the recipient write down a word and show it to her
camera.
> Then the donor should reciprocate thus establishing we are whom we
say
> we are.
> As far as N.I. vs A.I., I choose N.I. for the following reasons.
> Apparently there is an 85% more chance of success with the natural
> method. Basic physiology bears this out.
> Plus I would want a future child to at least know I existed and
maybe
> even my name. In my initial research I found that when children
learn
> of their origins they are more secure and settled with an actual
person
> than a sterile donor.
>
> Thanks for letting me share my 2 cents.
>
> Randy
>
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